Dating a younger guy in your 30s
Making him meals and making him plans, teaching him about house decor Ben changed my views on younger guys — because, really, the operative word is guy here, not man and, hi, I'm a woman, not a girl — upside down, and made me see the pros and cons of dating a younger guy, like She's not going to call you and go on a tirade for an hour because you unwittingly scheduled an important meeting for the same time as her best friend's engagement party. They met at the University of Hawaii in Novemberwhen she was a law student and he was a sophomore undergraduate.
So, yeah, I've been disappointed by my past boyfriends' lack of scheduling ability compared to my own, but Ben made them look like professional bookkeepers.
He was loving but selfish, he would throw tantrums without expecting repercussions.
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But these are not age-specific qualities. Plus, she has experience. She won't need constant reassuring that those jeans don't make her look fat. You want to date someone who appreciates you.
She knows what works for her body and has developed her own personal style.
But, wow, that was stupid. It's hard to hear your ticking biological clock over the sound of a refined gentleman recommending an expensive whiskey. If you happen to date a year-old who just sold his start-up to Yahoo, then money is no issue.
As soon as I stopped giving a fuck, I felt awesome. A man struggling to make it knows the value of a dollar, and that alone is far more appealing than the one who throws money at you in an attempt to impress.
Let go of your inhibitions and run around a bit with an energetic or year-old, and what you may discover is that the world feels a little bigger, and the night a lot younger. She takes care of herself. But for most, money is tight.
I did learn a fair amount about myself during our relationship, and I can only hope he learned from me.